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家庭聚会

那像是一个家庭聚会,所有亲戚陆陆续续出席,差不多都到齐了。五天的仪式,穿上白衣黑裤,我们都尽量不出门,不准看电视,没有娱乐。家里唯一的音乐是佛曲。可以做的,就是摺金银元宝,烧香烧银纸。我和弟妹四人,难得可以围在一起聊天,消磨时间。不只我们,叔叔、姑姑和其他亲戚也聚在一起。我家新年都没这么热闹过。

这一次,我看到了小弟成熟的一面。自动自发打理事务,他闷得慌了,找些事情做。哈哈。。小弟长大了呗!再不然,就是吃。包伙食的老姨,非常棒,每一餐都准备好吃的,还有糖水及宵夜。也好,要轮流守夜,也得补一补。

这是一场没有哭声的丧礼,婆婆年事已高,身体也虚弱了,离开也是一种解脱吧。这事,因为避忌,没有事前规划。还好都给人一手包办,只要付得起钱就好。殡葬仪式,原来可以那么专业了。灵位买卖,也有服务周到的销售人员,一级的售后服务呢,厉害!

送了婆婆最后一程,仪式完毕,客人走了。我也累垮了。第一件事,马上洗头!五天没得洗头,我的头发湿得滴油,真难受!!

这星期是三七了。婆婆,安息吧。

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